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	<title>Comments on: Too Close, So Far</title>
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		<title>By: heide</title>
		<link>http://www.planetcrushers.com/heide/archives/2004/06/26/too-close-so-far/comment-page-1/#comment-382</link>
		<dc:creator>heide</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jun 2004 03:10:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh I wasn&#039;t really referring to any specific situation, just thinking out loud after reading someone else&#039;s entry.  :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh I wasn&#8217;t really referring to any specific situation, just thinking out loud after reading someone else&#8217;s entry.  :-)</p>
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		<title>By: heather</title>
		<link>http://www.planetcrushers.com/heide/archives/2004/06/26/too-close-so-far/comment-page-1/#comment-379</link>
		<dc:creator>heather</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jun 2004 04:27:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i&#039;m afraid to post this comment because i remember spending time with you, but fear you don&#039;t.  i have a fond memory and impression of you as a person, but fear you don&#039;t of me.

well, i&#039;m not really afraid, but there has always been some level of hesitance on my part to contribute to your presence online because of a shared friend who no longer considers themselves or me to be one to the other.  it just goes to enforce your point, i suppose.

to break the cycle, you just have to decide take the leap or make it as plain as possible that you&#039;re welcoming of overtures from potential leapies. =)  people often surprise you just when you&#039;ve decided they never could.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i&#8217;m afraid to post this comment because i remember spending time with you, but fear you don&#8217;t.  i have a fond memory and impression of you as a person, but fear you don&#8217;t of me.</p>
<p>well, i&#8217;m not really afraid, but there has always been some level of hesitance on my part to contribute to your presence online because of a shared friend who no longer considers themselves or me to be one to the other.  it just goes to enforce your point, i suppose.</p>
<p>to break the cycle, you just have to decide take the leap or make it as plain as possible that you&#8217;re welcoming of overtures from potential leapies. =)  people often surprise you just when you&#8217;ve decided they never could.</p>
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		<title>By: Jenn</title>
		<link>http://www.planetcrushers.com/heide/archives/2004/06/26/too-close-so-far/comment-page-1/#comment-377</link>
		<dc:creator>Jenn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jun 2004 20:52:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think some of depends on what people&#039;s version of &#039;friend&#039; is.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think some of depends on what people&#8217;s version of &#8216;friend&#8217; is.</p>
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